About Innertype

Between what we know,
and what we do.

A space for noticing the patterns we've been part of — in relationships, in ourselves, in the choices we keep making.

“We often know when something isn't right.
We can feel it. We can even explain it logically.
And yet, we still stay. We still repeat it.”

I come from a data background, where everything is built on patterns.

Over time, I started to notice something — patterns don't just exist in data. They exist in how we live, how we choose, and how we relate to people. The same structures that show up in datasets show up in relationships. Loops. Feedback cycles. Variables we don't account for. Outcomes we keep being surprised by.

We know a lot, intellectually. About attachment. About what healthy looks like. About what we should want. And still — we find ourselves in the same rooms, the same dynamics, the same arguments, with different people wearing different faces.

Because we're not just rational. We're emotional. We're human. And the gap between what we know and what we do is exactly where most of the interesting — and difficult — things happen.

This space

Innertype is built on that tension.

The readings and quizzes here aren't meant to tell you what to do. They're not here to label you, or your partner, or the relationship you're trying to understand. Labels are useful shortcuts, but they're not the point.

The point is to help you pause. To notice the patterns you've been part of. To see them more clearly — maybe for the first time, maybe for the hundredth time in a way that finally lands.

Because awareness creates a moment
A moment where you can choose differently.
A moment where you can step out of a cycle that no longer works.
A moment where you can understand yourself, and others, a little better.

Awareness doesn't immediately change everything. You won't finish a quiz and wake up tomorrow a different person. That's not how any of this works, and I'd be doing you a disservice to suggest otherwise.

But something does shift when you see a pattern named — especially one you've been living inside without quite having the language for it. There's something useful in that. Something grounding. Even when what you're seeing is uncomfortable.

Especially then.

And sometimes, that's where everything begins.

This is early. Innertype is a small, quietly-built thing right now. There are two readings live, more in progress. The goal is depth over breadth — fewer things, done carefully, that actually help someone see themselves a little more clearly.

If something here resonated with you, I'd love to know. You can find me on Instagram at @innertype__.

Start here

Take a reading.

Two quizzes, built carefully. Each one designed to surface something you might not have had words for yet.

Decode Your Partner → What does this cost you?
More reflections and readings at @innertype__